阿妹来了。 连续几个期末。高兴看到她,开心看到她。更欣慰她到来。
高了许多。 妹说, 有和哥哥书信联系。 这真还蛮好的。希望继续下去。
有个下午, 和她一块去吃 汉堡。 两个瓜, 一路不停地唱歌。。。唱着去, 唱着会。。。感觉还真不错。。
Everything is just right beside me..and I'm glad & appreciate!
一切都在身边。。。欣慰也感激!
“。。这里,是一个让我熬着一碗很平凡的酸甜苦辣汤。。的锅。。我熬着,我脑袋对所经过、听闻和面对的一些思想、事情、人物及一切的汤料。是我的锅,煮着我的汤料,谁人喝得不快,那是因为它不是你那锅汤。。”
"Here is my melting pot of life. And it's just mine!"
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Monday, May 14, 2012
Mother's day on 2012, pt1
Little peggy was here on Saturday...my sis fetched her to join the lunch with us at town. After finish with the lunch, I brought her to town again to buy some stuffs..Been long never do such with her..coz been busy of working life.
At first, we stop by at the supermart, to buy the coffee powder..then wanting to go to giant supermart, but...was bit late at that time, so dropped out the idea and instead went to another supermart...to continue buying stuffs self looking for.
When reached there, we both enjoyed our shopping in our own way...she wanted to buy for a pencil box...but due to too expensive..i suggested her to drop that idea, and go for another shop to get one. And she was ok with that. So, after got what we wanted for, we proceed to another shop.
At the shop...she found her pencil box and on top of that grabbed her a box of 2b pencil too. After that, we went home.
At about almost six, she said hungry and wana go eat roti canai, so..brought her to eat roti canai...due to not enuff, ordered another roti planta...and with milo ice.
After dinner, sis brought her back home at about 8pm...
At first, we stop by at the supermart, to buy the coffee powder..then wanting to go to giant supermart, but...was bit late at that time, so dropped out the idea and instead went to another supermart...to continue buying stuffs self looking for.
When reached there, we both enjoyed our shopping in our own way...she wanted to buy for a pencil box...but due to too expensive..i suggested her to drop that idea, and go for another shop to get one. And she was ok with that. So, after got what we wanted for, we proceed to another shop.
At the shop...she found her pencil box and on top of that grabbed her a box of 2b pencil too. After that, we went home.
At about almost six, she said hungry and wana go eat roti canai, so..brought her to eat roti canai...due to not enuff, ordered another roti planta...and with milo ice.
After dinner, sis brought her back home at about 8pm...
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
3rd year/第三年
This is the 3rd year self writing for mei mei & ko ko, from where i stand and see. Nothing much i can do, except trying best to look from where i were to capture some memories of them.
这是第三年在自己的所在地,为妹妹和哥哥所看到或知道的事件,所写的某些片段。无他的,自己能做的不多,就希望在自己的位置里,为他们留下些些记忆吧。
Another week soon, mei mei is going to primary three. Saw her day before yesterday, she said was in KL with cousin brother along with her grandfather. Was just back from KL on Friday.
再多一个星期,妹妹就要进入小三了。前天见她,她说,和公公在 KL 表哥哪。 星期五才回来。
Her big front teeth finally nicely grown. Still remember 3 years back, when was trying to get her out of sadness, accidentally broke her teeth with the "pom - pom car"..haiz..and very much worrying it not gonna grow for new teeth.But now seeing her big big big teeth grown nicely there...relief me...hahehehaeheha
终于见到她那两颗大大的门牙长出来了。还记得三年前,为了使她开心,在玩 pom pom 车时,不小心将一个门牙给撞脱了,很是担心它不会再长出来,因为不知那是乳牙还是不,现在,可放心了。哈哈哈哈哈
I used to ask to hug and carry her...and swing her round and round. When doing so, found out she had put on more weight, and this is good. Growing up. hahahahaha.. She also told that got meet with ko ko at kl. He is back to work while getting self ready for piano exam...which is something good.
我习惯性的将她抱起,然后转圈圈的摇啊摇。此时发现,她重了许多,这是好事。成长嘛。哈哈哈哈哈哈。她也说,又见到哥哥。哥哥做工了,也还继续弹钢琴。。。这也是好事。
The 3rd year, since that that incident. Well, just hoping they both are getting much more happier in their coming year...and healthier too...
自从那事,已经是第三年了。唔,就希望他们俩在来年能更快乐。。也更健康
这是第三年在自己的所在地,为妹妹和哥哥所看到或知道的事件,所写的某些片段。无他的,自己能做的不多,就希望在自己的位置里,为他们留下些些记忆吧。
Another week soon, mei mei is going to primary three. Saw her day before yesterday, she said was in KL with cousin brother along with her grandfather. Was just back from KL on Friday.
再多一个星期,妹妹就要进入小三了。前天见她,她说,和公公在 KL 表哥哪。 星期五才回来。
Her big front teeth finally nicely grown. Still remember 3 years back, when was trying to get her out of sadness, accidentally broke her teeth with the "pom - pom car"..haiz..and very much worrying it not gonna grow for new teeth.But now seeing her big big big teeth grown nicely there...relief me...hahehehaeheha
终于见到她那两颗大大的门牙长出来了。还记得三年前,为了使她开心,在玩 pom pom 车时,不小心将一个门牙给撞脱了,很是担心它不会再长出来,因为不知那是乳牙还是不,现在,可放心了。哈哈哈哈哈
I used to ask to hug and carry her...and swing her round and round. When doing so, found out she had put on more weight, and this is good. Growing up. hahahahaha.. She also told that got meet with ko ko at kl. He is back to work while getting self ready for piano exam...which is something good.
我习惯性的将她抱起,然后转圈圈的摇啊摇。此时发现,她重了许多,这是好事。成长嘛。哈哈哈哈哈哈。她也说,又见到哥哥。哥哥做工了,也还继续弹钢琴。。。这也是好事。
The 3rd year, since that that incident. Well, just hoping they both are getting much more happier in their coming year...and healthier too...
自从那事,已经是第三年了。唔,就希望他们俩在来年能更快乐。。也更健康
Thursday, November 25, 2010
一年级的简忆
妹妹,你今年已经七岁了。正在小学一年级就读,而且很快地就要升上小二了。
想起两年前的你刚回到这里的时候,还只有五岁多。对身边的一切都很陌生,特别是身边的人。因此,都不易融入新环境。因为你公公也力不从心, 无能真正可以看顾和监督你, 因此,将你托放在幼儿园。因为这样, 你也认识了较多的同龄小朋友,日子也较开心和快乐, 人也比较开郎,对应外在的事情和人物也比较松脱戒备。
渐渐地,你也比较接受了这里的生活。新的环境, 新的友人, 新的事物,还有新的学期;及更多的同班同学,让你逐渐步入安稳的生活轨道。
小学一年级,上半年课业上,可能因为事物新鲜,又未和小朋友熟络,所以专注力都放在课业上,因此,也叫用心在课业上,成绩也较好。但下半年时,你却开始放松了自己,就只爱玩乐, 功课也较放松了很多,也退步了很多, 使自己也担心起来;还好在年终时,也加了把劲, 将专注力放回课业上,公公快乐,自己也好过了些。
现在, 假期来了, 你期待以久的假期。目前为止, 你已到过马六甲、槟城及吉隆坡等地方。为你带来了好多的快乐及高兴。
一年级, 就这样的过去了。希望这能为你留下些记忆。
想起两年前的你刚回到这里的时候,还只有五岁多。对身边的一切都很陌生,特别是身边的人。因此,都不易融入新环境。因为你公公也力不从心, 无能真正可以看顾和监督你, 因此,将你托放在幼儿园。因为这样, 你也认识了较多的同龄小朋友,日子也较开心和快乐, 人也比较开郎,对应外在的事情和人物也比较松脱戒备。
渐渐地,你也比较接受了这里的生活。新的环境, 新的友人, 新的事物,还有新的学期;及更多的同班同学,让你逐渐步入安稳的生活轨道。
小学一年级,上半年课业上,可能因为事物新鲜,又未和小朋友熟络,所以专注力都放在课业上,因此,也叫用心在课业上,成绩也较好。但下半年时,你却开始放松了自己,就只爱玩乐, 功课也较放松了很多,也退步了很多, 使自己也担心起来;还好在年终时,也加了把劲, 将专注力放回课业上,公公快乐,自己也好过了些。
现在, 假期来了, 你期待以久的假期。目前为止, 你已到过马六甲、槟城及吉隆坡等地方。为你带来了好多的快乐及高兴。
一年级, 就这样的过去了。希望这能为你留下些记忆。
Monday, November 15, 2010
mei mei is going to be in pri 2 next year. Time juz passing away fast. She got herself improved on her studies..that make herself and many people are happy for her & her hard work.
Hmm..i dont know what else i can do for her..so wanted her to come over on weekend to write the 弟子规。。三字经。。and the rest..hoping she will be learning something from there, be it now or in the future. And wanting she to know that, somebody there to accompany her in growing up process.
I know that it was quite boring doing so..writing something that she might not even know herself, I just hoping she will cultivate some habits that might good or useful.
Hmm..i dont know what else i can do for her..so wanted her to come over on weekend to write the 弟子规。。三字经。。and the rest..hoping she will be learning something from there, be it now or in the future. And wanting she to know that, somebody there to accompany her in growing up process.
I know that it was quite boring doing so..writing something that she might not even know herself, I just hoping she will cultivate some habits that might good or useful.
Saturday, September 4, 2010
一辈子的痛
亲爱的哥妹俩,我知道你们母亲的离去已有两年了。我也知道在这两年里, 你们都不好过。伤心、难过毕竟是免不了的。但是,再难过或再快乐的时间;总还是会过了去。所以;咬紧牙关,撑了过去;更好的日子就会在前面等着你们!
哥哥啊哥哥,知道你和你母亲毕竟是生活了交久,感情也比较厚,因此;比妹妹更伤心也在所难免, 但是在伤心、受挫、愤怒、放弃。。等等等后,请记得走出那悲伤,继续更坚强的活下去;因为,没有人放弃过你。
死忙的事实,本是件很残酷及现实的事情;特别是对那不成被思想过这事的你们;但是,身为一个人,有生的一天;也就会同样地,有死的一天。这是争不了的铁一般事实。每一个人,都会经过这样的一个成长个过程。这样的死忙事件,每分每秒都在发生着, 只是死者和我们不认识,没关系;所以无从伤心;可是,对他们的亲人来说,他们可跟你们一样般伤心啊!而你们会特别伤心、难过是因为她是你母亲。因为关系密切,因此分外伤心、难过。所以,在伤心过了和已是无补于事的时候,请记得停止, 然后吸取它真正及正面带给你们成长的学习信号:更积极的去珍惜身边应该珍惜的人。 这样,会更对得起你们的母亲,而远在天堂的她会倍加幸会和欣慰:她的子女真的长大、懂事了。因为,世上再复杂、再艰难的事,都没比死去心爱的人更痛苦;而对着痛苦, 你们都去面对、也撑了过去,更从中学习正面的信息!
当用"学习“的出发点来看事情,痛;也是一种学习里必经的过程。而当一切这样的过程 (或许有、或许没)都过了,我们可能也留给爱我们的人一些必经的痛。
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能做的事, 不多选择。 唯有祝福。还有尽量从旁看顾。。
哥哥啊哥哥,知道你和你母亲毕竟是生活了交久,感情也比较厚,因此;比妹妹更伤心也在所难免, 但是在伤心、受挫、愤怒、放弃。。等等等后,请记得走出那悲伤,继续更坚强的活下去;因为,没有人放弃过你。
死忙的事实,本是件很残酷及现实的事情;特别是对那不成被思想过这事的你们;但是,身为一个人,有生的一天;也就会同样地,有死的一天。这是争不了的铁一般事实。每一个人,都会经过这样的一个成长个过程。这样的死忙事件,每分每秒都在发生着, 只是死者和我们不认识,没关系;所以无从伤心;可是,对他们的亲人来说,他们可跟你们一样般伤心啊!而你们会特别伤心、难过是因为她是你母亲。因为关系密切,因此分外伤心、难过。所以,在伤心过了和已是无补于事的时候,请记得停止, 然后吸取它真正及正面带给你们成长的学习信号:更积极的去珍惜身边应该珍惜的人。 这样,会更对得起你们的母亲,而远在天堂的她会倍加幸会和欣慰:她的子女真的长大、懂事了。因为,世上再复杂、再艰难的事,都没比死去心爱的人更痛苦;而对着痛苦, 你们都去面对、也撑了过去,更从中学习正面的信息!
当用"学习“的出发点来看事情,痛;也是一种学习里必经的过程。而当一切这样的过程 (或许有、或许没)都过了,我们可能也留给爱我们的人一些必经的痛。
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能做的事, 不多选择。 唯有祝福。还有尽量从旁看顾。。
Sunday, May 23, 2010
简单又平凡的快乐
将近两个星期没见到妹妹了,忽然心血来潮,旁晚时分就去接她过来, 然后一起逛 pasar malam(夜市)。坐在单车后的妹妹,凉凉的风吹得她直喊爽爽爽!
原本说好六点就出门,但是因为炎热的太阳老爷还不想放工,只好拖到七点才出门。七点钟, 天气是比较凉,但是人也比较多,也比较人济人;小孩较难走动。但因说好了,就还是出门了。
结果,两个瓜,手牵着手前后摇摆,还一边哼起。。“当我们同在一起。。在一起。。在一起。。当我们同在一起。。在一起。。在一起。。其快乐无比。。。。当。。。” 一路“当” 到市口。。就开始高高兴兴地从这一端走到另一端,东瞧瞧、西看看。。喜欢的就摸两下。。。然后也高高兴兴又热热的从人群中转出来。。接着,happy 的笑一笑说“走完了。。要回家咯。。” 就又双手摇摇摆摆归家了。
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快乐,其实是很简单也很平凡。
是一种心思。
是一种行动。
原本说好六点就出门,但是因为炎热的太阳老爷还不想放工,只好拖到七点才出门。七点钟, 天气是比较凉,但是人也比较多,也比较人济人;小孩较难走动。但因说好了,就还是出门了。
结果,两个瓜,手牵着手前后摇摆,还一边哼起。。“当我们同在一起。。在一起。。在一起。。当我们同在一起。。在一起。。在一起。。其快乐无比。。。。当。。。” 一路“当” 到市口。。就开始高高兴兴地从这一端走到另一端,东瞧瞧、西看看。。喜欢的就摸两下。。。然后也高高兴兴又热热的从人群中转出来。。接着,happy 的笑一笑说“走完了。。要回家咯。。” 就又双手摇摇摆摆归家了。
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快乐,其实是很简单也很平凡。
是一种心思。
是一种行动。
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Life Is a process.
To love,is to accept. Acceptance is a form of love.
生活;就是将生与死,连接的一条线
Between live and death, there is a line connecting them both, which is call Life
思想决定行动,行动决定习惯,习惯决定品德,品德决定命运。
sow a thought, reap an action;sow an action, reap a habit;sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.
相信,就会还有。
不相信, 就连有得都变没有。.
希望。。在人间!
"事情是这样,就不会是别样“。。
很多事情,因为某些障碍,我表达和反应不来,但我真得很用心去想和做。。。
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