Today, mei mei came, and with a card that she made it herself, which is meant for me. I didn't know that she really go and make one for me, as promised; when she saw a card sent by my friend, on the table.
When she first stepped down from car, the first thing she said was to come and gave me the card, which really surprised me, that she still remembered her promises to do one for me..such a nice lovely little girl..a big hug and kiss for her
She drawn a gift box, big heart in green outline and together with a 2 layers of colorful cake on the first page; wishing me healthy always...while on the second page, except the from portion, leaving some unfinished parts too..haha...and that's the wonder of little kids...
In return, I cooked her a burger meat that had been long promised to cook for her, and of course she enjoyed eating it..
She is really such a nice little lovely girl...applause with love & courage; for her~
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Friday, June 25, 2010
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
时间会说。。
很失望因为那认识那么久的人，竟然对自己存有着那么多的怀疑；怀疑会对他们有或要有怎样的企图。哼！好笑加可耻！
觉得很好笑，是因为，如果需要有企图，真需要等到那么才久来行动吗？（没脑的人！）
可耻的是，他们对自己没有信心，也因此侮辱了自己和他人。
面对这样的人，也就算了吧！就像别人说的：一种米，养白种人啊！所以，别人要怎样想，那是别人的权利。真相是如何，时间会告诉一切！反正，自己就不曾陷害过人，也不曾有意识得伤害他人；所以，对得起自己也对得起他人。
那要继续怀疑的，还是其他什么的； 请便！ 请便！
生活可以很勉强的过，但事情可以不用勉强的处理！
觉得很好笑，是因为，如果需要有企图，真需要等到那么才久来行动吗？（没脑的人！）
可耻的是，他们对自己没有信心，也因此侮辱了自己和他人。
面对这样的人，也就算了吧！就像别人说的：一种米，养白种人啊！所以，别人要怎样想，那是别人的权利。真相是如何，时间会告诉一切！反正，自己就不曾陷害过人，也不曾有意识得伤害他人；所以，对得起自己也对得起他人。
那要继续怀疑的，还是其他什么的； 请便！ 请便！
生活可以很勉强的过，但事情可以不用勉强的处理！
Sunday, June 20, 2010
好人的故事5----- 小好人。
小，是指小孩的小。所以，这次的好人是个小孩。这个小孩是个阳光、快乐、打抱不平、敢言敢怒的小好人. 这小好人做的好事，对别人来说；可能并不是件有很深的影响爆发力，然而对曾给他帮过的人，却是使那人毕生难忘。
有这样的另一个小孩，性格上可说是完全的相反。他沉默寡言、优柔寡断、 能忍则忍的人、也不容易表达自己的意见。因此，很多事，给很多人认为，是一个不需被询问意见的人。以为可以被遗忘， 被开玩笑的小孩； 因，他总不会应。
然而，这两个小孩却碰上了而成为朋友。一起上课和玩耍的伴友。
就有一次，沉默寡言的小孩在班上被同学欺负时，既然被小好人碰着了，就替那小孩出头回骂欺负的同学，和骂说以后不要再欺负他了。此时，这小孩被吓了一跳，因为没想到小好人会帮他，而傻傻的看着小好人， 一句话也说不出。好一会儿，才回过神来。
小好人的行动，真是令那小孩感到惊讶和感动。因为，在那小孩的世界里，从来不曾有过这样的人；一个为自己出头的人；存在过。在他的世界里，不管是他做错还是不，他总是被骂的那个；尽管他是如何的维护自己，到最后，还是被欺压的那个。直到后来，他已放弃和那些争吵、闹骂他人的人沟通。而被骂时，更懒得去应付这些人。
小好人做的事并不是大事，但却是很正直的事，也在该做的时刻做该做的事。
有这样的另一个小孩，性格上可说是完全的相反。他沉默寡言、优柔寡断、 能忍则忍的人、也不容易表达自己的意见。因此，很多事，给很多人认为，是一个不需被询问意见的人。以为可以被遗忘， 被开玩笑的小孩； 因，他总不会应。
然而，这两个小孩却碰上了而成为朋友。一起上课和玩耍的伴友。
就有一次，沉默寡言的小孩在班上被同学欺负时，既然被小好人碰着了，就替那小孩出头回骂欺负的同学，和骂说以后不要再欺负他了。此时，这小孩被吓了一跳，因为没想到小好人会帮他，而傻傻的看着小好人， 一句话也说不出。好一会儿，才回过神来。
小好人的行动，真是令那小孩感到惊讶和感动。因为，在那小孩的世界里，从来不曾有过这样的人；一个为自己出头的人；存在过。在他的世界里，不管是他做错还是不，他总是被骂的那个；尽管他是如何的维护自己，到最后，还是被欺压的那个。直到后来，他已放弃和那些争吵、闹骂他人的人沟通。而被骂时，更懒得去应付这些人。
小好人做的事并不是大事，但却是很正直的事，也在该做的时刻做该做的事。
Saturday, June 19, 2010
多少面 vs 真我
人啊，到底有多少面，真的是很难知透。可能，对某些人来说，他们都不知自己竟是有多个不同的自己。也对某些人来说，他们是知道自己的多面化;然后尽量在多面化的自己里，不失真我；然，却也有些是非常是故的。
为什么会这样呢？ 可能，不多人愿意去了解，因会有那种被别人标签为“想得太多” 、 “自找麻烦” 或“吃饱没事做”的人。也可能，这根本就不需要思考的事情，因为千古以来，每个人就是那样的，所以不一样就好像很怪了。也有些人，就即来之、则安之的心态。也可能，现在没这个时间、精神、勇气或藉口去想。也即有可能，思想的人还搞不清楚是哪门的功夫。。。。和更多的可能。。
而自己却是曾经想过，然后寻找相关的资料，再过滤的想，了解而接受。然后，尽量了解自己的性格和本性，加上身边以外因素的考虑，再尽量找出自己想要的方向与宗旨，来做自己。
曾经在socialogy 类型的书里， 读到说人是需要扮演着很多不同的角色，以生存在这个世上。而在越来越复杂的社会里，角色的表现，比以前的要求来的高。这是进步象征的要求吗？ 我并不懂。
在角色的表现里，某些角色，可能将近真我的表现；这时，心中的挣扎和矛盾，就很小和少，因此，较快乐、舒服。也有某些角色里，却是远离真我的表现，但又不能抽离；这时，心中的挣扎和矛盾，在越表现的不在乎，心中却是越来越不满；因此不快乐，有时甚至会觉得痛苦。能习惯的， 就会变得如鱼得水、更快乐、更是故； 不能习惯的，又不能退缩时会不快乐和无奈；当可退缩时，多会更换环境。
多少面， 是每个人必定会有的。有些人可能觉得自己没有，因为在每个人前的表现都是一致的；关于这点，却是“各花入各眼”的说法；因为，不是每个人能肯定在别人眼中的自己，就是自己认定的真我。这是客观与主观的事情。
不管是哪一个自己；最终，还是自己最了解，在那种情况下，要选择的角色和真我对比的表现，是多少。是一种选择。
为什么会这样呢？ 可能，不多人愿意去了解，因会有那种被别人标签为“想得太多” 、 “自找麻烦” 或“吃饱没事做”的人。也可能，这根本就不需要思考的事情，因为千古以来，每个人就是那样的，所以不一样就好像很怪了。也有些人，就即来之、则安之的心态。也可能，现在没这个时间、精神、勇气或藉口去想。也即有可能，思想的人还搞不清楚是哪门的功夫。。。。和更多的可能。。
而自己却是曾经想过，然后寻找相关的资料，再过滤的想，了解而接受。然后，尽量了解自己的性格和本性，加上身边以外因素的考虑，再尽量找出自己想要的方向与宗旨，来做自己。
曾经在socialogy 类型的书里， 读到说人是需要扮演着很多不同的角色，以生存在这个世上。而在越来越复杂的社会里，角色的表现，比以前的要求来的高。这是进步象征的要求吗？ 我并不懂。
在角色的表现里，某些角色，可能将近真我的表现；这时，心中的挣扎和矛盾，就很小和少，因此，较快乐、舒服。也有某些角色里，却是远离真我的表现，但又不能抽离；这时，心中的挣扎和矛盾，在越表现的不在乎，心中却是越来越不满；因此不快乐，有时甚至会觉得痛苦。能习惯的， 就会变得如鱼得水、更快乐、更是故； 不能习惯的，又不能退缩时会不快乐和无奈；当可退缩时，多会更换环境。
多少面， 是每个人必定会有的。有些人可能觉得自己没有，因为在每个人前的表现都是一致的；关于这点，却是“各花入各眼”的说法；因为，不是每个人能肯定在别人眼中的自己，就是自己认定的真我。这是客观与主观的事情。
不管是哪一个自己；最终，还是自己最了解，在那种情况下，要选择的角色和真我对比的表现，是多少。是一种选择。
Self's Ramly Burger..
Sometimes, I do cook; especially on weekends.
I'm not the type that really like cooking everyday, but occasionally, I do enjoy cooking; especially for own meal. I will just simply cook with whatever available foods that have, as long as can fill my stomach.
Recently, miss those days that with ramly burger, then without second thoughts, i reached out at the local market, and get myself the burger meat, burger bread, vegetables & sauces...and gonna make self's brand ramly burger..
Well, it might not as tasty as ramly, and might also not as good looking as ramly too..but yet, I cooked it myself, and it just filled my stomach!
Recently, miss those days that with ramly burger, then without second thoughts, i reached out at the local market, and get myself the burger meat, burger bread, vegetables & sauces...and gonna make self's brand ramly burger..
Well, it might not as tasty as ramly, and might also not as good looking as ramly too..but yet, I cooked it myself, and it just filled my stomach!
Friday, June 18, 2010
Few hours escape
Today went to town to settle something, and while mei mei is still on holidays, so brought her along...
After finished my thing, we went to popular...
we spent few hours there looking for each other books, and indeed, we bought some. She bought herself some exercise books and her favorite playing card, while i bought myself some offered DIY series art books. I just like those art books...that give ideas making use of materials where can easily get from.
After payment, we proceed to have a meal, as about dinner time di. We had KFC...we thought we would enjoy the meal, as both of us were too hungry, but who know we were not so welcome for the new recipe of pedas chicken. It was just not as good as spicy fried chicken :(, however, since ordered di, gotto finish it then..
Then, we kept on our way to back home, with happily face and satisfied on desired items purchased, within few hours escape!
After finished my thing, we went to popular...
we spent few hours there looking for each other books, and indeed, we bought some. She bought herself some exercise books and her favorite playing card, while i bought myself some offered DIY series art books. I just like those art books...that give ideas making use of materials where can easily get from.
After payment, we proceed to have a meal, as about dinner time di. We had KFC...we thought we would enjoy the meal, as both of us were too hungry, but who know we were not so welcome for the new recipe of pedas chicken. It was just not as good as spicy fried chicken :(, however, since ordered di, gotto finish it then..
Then, we kept on our way to back home, with happily face and satisfied on desired items purchased, within few hours escape!
Post Card Collection
Started to collect post card since schooling time, for fun and as a hobby too..
Many friends have contributed to my collections, and many thanks for them; included some were as gifts; as posted card by them while on theirs vacation. Self also bought during trips to some countries.
Quality of the pictures aren't that good coz using the hand phone to shoot, jz convenience.
Like them very much as pro work done by pro photographers, with pro tools.
Many friends have contributed to my collections, and many thanks for them; included some were as gifts; as posted card by them while on theirs vacation. Self also bought during trips to some countries.
Quality of the pictures aren't that good coz using the hand phone to shoot, jz convenience.
Like them very much as pro work done by pro photographers, with pro tools.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
单纯
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这是一张自己很喜欢的一篇图文，是很多年前友人从网络中转载寄送来的。好简单的题目但却不容易的行动。放在这，希望复杂的时刻，就能来看看它。。。^.^
谢谢设计这图文的人。
这是一张自己很喜欢的一篇图文，是很多年前友人从网络中转载寄送来的。好简单的题目但却不容易的行动。放在这，希望复杂的时刻，就能来看看它。。。^.^
谢谢设计这图文的人。
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